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February 28th, 2009 by Kristi Stephens

Great stuff to share this week!

Have you heard about Red Envelope Day?? What a great, simple way to let Obama know that the abortion issue has not been forgotten, and that Americans who care about this issue are not in the minority! Please participate along with us!

Homeschooling moms: check out these virtual field trips!

Organizing site extraordinaire: The Fly Lady

I put a link on a few weeks ago for Rose Publishing – have you signed up for their email list yet? Every week they send out a link to a free downloadable PDF image – these are great for homeschooling, Christian school teachers, or Sunday school teachers!!

Also, local friends – today is the last day of a sale at Berean Christian stores – all hardback books are 50% off! [you can get my favorite children's Bible, "The Jesus Storybook Bible" by Sally Lloyd-Jones for $9.00!]

Finishing Well

February 27th, 2009 by Kristi Stephens

Today we are at the end of 2nd Samuel – just to clarify, I want to give a quick note about the structure of these books. Back in January we looked at Hannah’s prayer and discussed how her song really gives an outline for these books. We said that the point of these books is: God will raise up and God will put down based on adherence to the Deuteronomic covenant.

From this idea you can see how the books fall into an outline:

  • God prospers faithful Hannah/ Hinders Unfaithful Eli (1 Sam. 1-3)
  • God hinders unfaithful Israel (1 Sam. 4-6)
  • God prospers “faithful” Saul (1 Sam. 7-15)
  • God hinders unfaithful Saul (1 Sam. 16-2 Sam. 1)
  • God prospers faithful David (2 Sam. 2-9)
  • God hinders unfaithful David (2 Sam. 10-20)

Now, chapters 21 through 24 of 2nd Samuel don’t really fit into this outline anywhere. In fact, they are not in chronological order with the rest of the books – these chapters seem to be appendices which record events and writings that fit in various places throughout David’s reign.

John MacAruthur notes in his Bible Commentary,

“There is striking literary arrangement of the sections in this division of the book. The first and last sections (21:1-14; 24:1-25) are narratives that describe two occurrences of the Lord’s anger against Israel. The second and fifth sections (21:15-22; 23:8-39) are descriptions of David’s warriors. The third and fourth sections (22:1-51; 23:1-7) record two of David’s songs.”

Today we are going to spend a little time looking at David’s song in 2 Samuel 22, which is almost identical to Psalm 18. The themes in this song go hand in hand with Hannah’s prayer in 1 Samuel 2, providing the other “bookend” for this section of Scripture. Notice how these two chapters mirror one another:

  • “The LORD is my rock my fortress and my deliverer;” (2 Samuel 22:2)
  • “There is no one holy like the LORD; there is no one besides you; there is no Rock like our God.” (1 Samuel 2:2)
  • “…my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge, my shield and the horn of my salvation. He is my stronghold, my refuge and my savior— from violent men you save me.” (2 Samuel 22:3)
  • “My heart rejoices in the LORD; in the LORD my horn is lifted high. My mouth boasts over my enemies, for I delight in your deliverance.” (1 Samuel 2:1)
  • “You save the humble, but your eyes are on the haughty to bring them low.” (2 Samuel 22:28)
  • “Do not keep talking so proudly or let your mouth speak such arrogance, for the LORD is a God who knows, and by him deeds are weighed.” (1 Samuel 2:3)
  • “He gives his king great victories; he shows unfailing kindness to his anointed, to David and his descendants forever.” (2 Samuel 22:51)
  • “He will give strength to his king and exalt the horn of his anointed.” (1 Samuel 2:10)

It is interesting that those last two verses both speak of a king who is God’s anointed(both singular). To quote MacArthur once again:

“These terms are singular and, thus, do not seem to refer to David and his descendants. Rather, they refer to the promised “seed,” the Messiah of 7:12 [the Davidic covenant.] The deliverance and ultimate triumph of David foreshadow that of the coming Messiah. At the end of his life, David looked back in faith at God’s promises and forward in hope to their fulfillment in the coming of a future king, the “anointed one.”

Before we get to personal application, just a quick note for those who have recently joined our studies. The promise of this “seed” is something we’ve been following since the beginning of our studies in Genesis. For a catch-up crash course, check out the following posts:

The Power of His Word – The initial promise in Genesis 3 and why it is trustworthy!
Redemption Unfolding – The first salvation experience! Adam and Eve trusted the promise of the coming Seed as their only way back into relationship with God!
The Battle Begins – the unfolding battle between the “seed” of the woman and the “seed” of Satan. The search for “THE Seed” continues!
The Cuddly Animals are not the Point of Noah’s Ark! – the continued search for the Seed revealed in Noah’s name!
Next Step in God’s Master Plan: Abraham – The Abrahamic Covenant, telling us that the Seed would come from the line of Abraham
The Lesson of Mount Moriah – God’s command to Abraham to sacrifice Isaac was really an issue of faith in the promises of the coming Seed!
Joseph, Judah, and the God of Mercy – God’s merciful restoration of Judah, and information that the Seed would come through Judah’s line!
What’s the deal with the talking donkey? The Seed promise reiterated by Baalam – God is faithful even when His people are not!
More clues about the Seed – The Davidic covenant, telling us that the Seed would come from the line of David.

Now, back to David. I love that phrase in MacArthur’s quote that, “At the end of his life, David looked back in faith at God’s promises and forward in hope to their fulfillment…” David definitely did not have a flawless life, as we studied in David’s Great Demise. However, at the end of His life, He is praising God for His justice and believes that God will be faithful to His promises. He started well, had a rocky “middle,” and ends in trust and faith.

When speaking of finishing well, I often think of Jacob’s statement in Genesis 45:15, “the God before whom my fathers Abraham and Isaac walked, the God who has been my shepherd all my life to this day…” Jacob was a great example of a guy who most definitely did not have all his ducks-in-a-row, spiritually speaking, for the majority of his life! And yet, he looked back and realized that God had shepherded him all his life to that very day.

None of us will be flawless. We will all look back on our lives and have areas of regret or failure, small or large. But when we are faithless, He is faithful. He is our shepherd throughout all our lives! I imagine that even as David surely deeply regretted his choices earlier in life, He reveled in the faithfulness of His God who loved him enough to pursue him, discipline him, and lovingly bring him back to Himself.

I have heard too many women say or imply that God cannot use them because they are broken, flawed vessels. Their sin has been too deep, their lives are too far gone, their chances were wasted. Friends, this is not true!

Do our actions have consequences? Absolutely, and David’s story is a sobering reminder of this. But God is able to redeem and work through the darkest of nights in our lives. When we are faithless, He is faithful! May God grant us the eyes to look back at our lives and see His hand of mercy and grace, look forward at the future and believe Him to be faithful to His promises, and leave a legacy of faith based on His faithfulness, not ours.

For as high as the heavens are above the earth,
so great is his love for those who fear him;
as far as the east is from the west,
so far has he removed our transgressions from us.
As a father has compassion on his children,
so the LORD has compassion on those who fear him;
for he knows how we are formed,
he remembers that we are dust.

Psalm 103:11-14

Blameless and pure

February 26th, 2009 by Kristi Stephens

As I mentioned earlier this week, the Bible verse we’ve been working on this week is “Do everything without complaining or arguing.” – Philippians 2:14 This is not an easy verse for anyone to master, let alone a 3 year old!

Today I brought the kids upstairs to get ready for nap/rest time, and we had our normal drill: “AG, you go potty while I change LB’s diaper and put him down for his nap.” Same instruction every day. For some reason, there are certain days when this just does not please my little princess! We have had huge meltdowns and “incidents” over going to the bathroom. Sometimes she just doesn’t feel like it.

Today I saw her think about pushing this again. As soon as I started the “you go potty” sentence, she started to say, “but I don’t need…” I turned and looked at her and said, “Remember, AG: no complaining or arguing.” To my shock and delight, she considered this and then promptly turned to obey! HALLELUJAH! Seriously, what a huge victory for my girl to hear, think, and choose to obey.

Back when we were going through Numbers I discussed complaining in the Cancer of Complaint. (If you haven’t read that post, it’s one of my favorite personal applications from the Pentateuch!) Permit me to quote a few paragraphs from that post here:

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I think that we often dismiss complaining as a “less serious” sin, or perhaps not a sin at all. Everybody complains – about the weather, about your headache, about your husband/ wife, about your pastor, about your kids, about your car, blah, blah, blah.

Think about this: If I truly believe that my God is sovereign, if I truly believe that absolutely nothing is out of His control… my complaints about the big AND small issues of life are tiny symptoms of a deadly cancer: lack of submission to the sovereign will of my Creator, Savior, and Lord. “God, I know that you order all things, but I think you’re doing a lousy job with the weather/ my health/ my family/ my finances/ etc.” And as I begin to adopt complaining as a pattern of life, I am living in constant rebellion to my God, whether it seems that bad or not. I am daily trading my soul, the cancer is spreading, and I am setting myself up for outright, blatant sin and disobedience.

The beginning of Philippians 2 is full of theology about our Lord Jesus. Paul’s one practical application point in this powerful chapter is found in 2:14-15 – Do all things without complaining and disputing, that you may become blameless and harmless, children of God without fault in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation…

Complaining IS a big deal.
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I was thinking about our small victory in the bathroom and was once again reminded of the idea of parenting as discipleship. I often tell AG after she’s been disciplined for something, “AG, I don’t like it when you’re in trouble. But, I love you – I want you to learn to obey Mom and Dad. When you learn to obey Mom and Dad…” (I have started leaving this sentence hanging and she completes it with what I frequently tell her,) “I’m learning how to obey God.”

Complaining is a symptom of a rebellious heart. This is true in my own life as well as in the lives of my children. My deepest prayer is that my children will surrender themselves to the Lord – fully and completely – and that their true love for and trust in Him would reveal itself in obedience. Obviously only the Holy Spirit can transform them from inside out, but godly parents have so much influence over how their children perceive authority, submission, love, etc.

Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed—not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence—continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you to will and to act according to his good purpose.
Do everything without complaining or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a crooked and depraved generation…

Philippians 2:12-15

Tackle it "Tuesday": Waging war against the common cold

February 26th, 2009 by Kristi Stephens

Somehow I seem to like to do my “tackle it Tuesday” projects on Wednesdays. Hmmm. Am I a non-conformist?

This afternoon I have been tackling germs! My kids have been fighting to be truly free of a nasty cold for a few weeks now… AG came down with it the morning of her birthday, and it has been our constant companion since then. In the last couple of days, the snot appears to be gone!

So, it was time: I have never really had to deep-clean/ disinfect toys. AG was not a toys-in-the-mouth kind of baby and didn’t get sick often (those things no doubt have a cause/effect relationship!) LB is a whole different story! As I have watched him happily roaming the house seeking what he may devour with various and sundry toys hanging out of his mouth, it was grossing me out to remember the same toy hanging from his mouth a couple of weeks ago covered with… you know.

So, today I pulled out the buckets, foil roasting pans (you use what you have!) bleach, and Lysol, and have been waging war against the germs. In case you’re wondering how exactly I did this, just wash the toys with soap and water, and then soak them in a bleach solution (about 1 Tbsp to a gallon of water.) It was pretty nice that I already keep the duplo blocks and other blocks in large plastic tubs – I just added the water and bleach to the container itself and then the container was disinfected, too! I let them soak for 15 minutes or so, rinsed them well, and let them air dry. Anything that wasn’t soak-able I just sprayed liberally with Lysol. Let the Lysol dry and then wipe them well with a clean, damp cloth. I also pulled out my trusty handheld steam cleaner (love that thing – perhaps I will blog about that tomorrow!) and steamed any dust and crusties out of the crevices of the larger items.

I have to say, the toys are gleaming! I put one of LB’s toys back and AG said, “Wow. I like how clean this looks.” Perhaps that new feeling was contagious – LB was playing with things he normally ignores. It’s amazing how seeing something out of reach on the kitchen counter for a while makes it irresistible.

The only casualty was my black sweatshirt: note to self, bleach will bleach. Arg.

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