That we might gain a heart of wisdom
March 23rd, 2009 by Kristi Stephens
Our ABF has been joking a lot the last few weeks about how we’re getting old – we heard through the grapevine that a newly married couple had peeked in at our “young couples” group and didn’t come in because they thought we were too old! This has given us quite a few funny discussions but also serious talks – personally, it disturbs me that we all tend to be very segregated within our age groups and feel odd deviating from those generational lines in the slightest way! How can the older teach the younger when we are afraid to interact with anyone with an age difference of more than 5 or 10 years from our own? But, that’s not really what I’m writing about today… that was a freebie! ;)
This has been one of those times when it seems like God is trying to tell me something – ever have a day when the same topic keeps popping up in your head, in conversation, on the radio, in your Bible?
This morning I was grocery shopping and running errands before NP left for work. On my way to Aldi I was listning to Nancy Leigh Demoss speaking about “passing the baton” to the next generation. She was challenging the younger generation to step up and realize that God is calling them to act in our day, while reminding the older generation that they need to be training and teaching the future leaders in order to pass the baton off to an equipped Church.
Then on my way home, I had flipped to our local pop station and “100 Years” by Five for Fighting came on. I love the sound of this song, but I also find the lyrics to be so haunting – how quickly our lives fly by! I was thinking about a brief conversation I had a couple of Sundays ago with a very wise older woman and one of the pastors of our church about the urgency of discipleship, teaching the Truth, and reaching the lost – we only have so much time in our lives and it’s passing quickly!
Then this afternoon as I opened my Bible to study, what did I come across but Psalm 39:4-7 -
Show me, O LORD, my life’s end
and the number of my days;
let me know how fleeting is my life.
You have made my days a mere handbreadth;
the span of my years is as nothing before you.
Each man’s life is but a breath.
Man is a mere phantom as he goes to and fro:
He bustles about, but only in vain;
he heaps up wealth, not knowing who will get it.
But now, Lord, what do I look for?
My hope is in you.
This also brought to mind for me James 4:14 – Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.
I will turn 29 this year; I am hardly “old,” and yet I also know that 1/3 of my life has already passed me by. I am not writing this to depress you or tell you that you’re old! However, I am feeling compelled to make my days count.
In this stage of life, so full of diapers and snot and reading picture books, it seems easy to somehow disconnect from the urgency of our mission. My children are young and I am still barely getting started with the job of training and teaching them. And yet, I know that in what will feel like the blink of an eye, they will be grown and on their own. Will I have taught them well? Will I have redeemed the time I had with them every single day to impress the Truth upon their hearts and teach them about our amazing Creator and Lord? While I know that ultimately only God can redeem their hearts and cause them to fear Him, the Bible makes clear the weighty responsibility of godly parenting.
What about outside my home? People cross my path each and every day who do not know my Savior. How much time do they have left? Add to that the growing urgency of seeing the “signs of the times” indicating that we don’t have much time left before His return, and this becomes a grave thought indeed.
It is so easy to waste minutes, hours, days, weeks, months, even years without doing anything with eternal significance. My day-to-day life does not seem that impressive, as I discussed in my post on Full-time Motherhood; and yet, this is a day I will never get back. Am I keeping that fully in my mind, or am I getting distracted by a bunch of vain nothings that will waste these precious years God has entrusted to me?
Paslm 90:12 says, Teach us to number our days aright, that we may gain a heart of wisdom. I want to encourage my fellow young mothers to number your days! Keeping the facts that our lives are fleeting, our time with our children is limited, and our mission is weighty with eternal significance will change our perspective on these days. To you women who are farther down the road of this journey, number your days! You have wisdom and Truth to share with those of us coming behind you, and we need you to do it! Please do not sit back and assume that you have been there, done that, and now you can take a step back. If anything, we need you to step up!
This reminds me of the parable of the talents. We have been entrusted with a certain number of gifts, talents, and relationships; we have an unknown number of years consisting of 365 24-hour days. When will our Master return? What will we have to give back to Him? What will He say to us?
Today is a new day of a new week. What will you do to redeem the time?
His master replied, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master’s happiness!’
Matthew 25:23

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