Those of you who have been regular readers for a while know my tension with Christmas. I absolutely love it, and yet sometimes feel like we’re missing the point. Tradition is not bad, but even well-intentioned and meaningful traditions can also become idols.

So, when I received 25 Days, 26 Ways to Make This Your Best Christmas Ever to review, I was skeptical but hoping for the best. The book is written in short chapters that are intended to be read one at a time from December 1st through the 25th. This is not a devotional, but rather a light “reflective reading” book from a Christian perspective.

I have to say, as I began reading this little book my hopes were lifting. I really enjoyed reading Ace Collins’ accounts of the historical “Good King Wenceslas” [I never knew he was a real person!], the church’s historical observance of advent, the way Christian missionaries in years long ago used mistletoe and evergreen trees to share the gospel, the roots of some of our most beloved Christmas carols, and Martin Luther being the first to add candles to the Christmas tree to symbolize Jesus as the Light of the World. Collins’ historical tidbits really did add a new layer of understanding and appreciation to Christmas traditions for me. I also appreciated the emphasis he rightly placed on giving and generosity, and that we should be seeking to emulate the love and heart of Christ.

BUT. I found Collins’ approach to refocusing on the meaning of the season to be shallow and scattered. His approach to lessening stress during the holidays seems to be “do more and be happy about it.” I felt like my hand was being slapped [albeit jovially] for not being a person who typically sends Christmas cards – and in fact, that I should be picking out individual cards that reflect the tastes of each friend and family member I send them to. I should pick out more gifts more thoughtfully. I should put up more lights more carefully. I should bake more cookies and give them away. I should take more pictures. Oh, and if I’m finding myself too rushed I should slow down and ride my bike. If I feel stressed about these things I should hum a Christmas carol and “turn my frown upside down.”

No matter how meaningful the roots of our Christmas traditions, I still contend that those very traditions can become idols that can overtake our focus on Christ. They aren’t bad – Christmas cards, lights, decorations, music, shopping, baking… all are enjoyable and fun and can create lovely memories. But perhaps instead of doing more and feeling guilty about not embracing a Clever-family Christmas, we should consider doing less. Perhaps we need to free ourselves a bit from the guilt of all of the “must-do” items on our agendas this time of year that really don’t matter in the lens of eternity.

In short, if you’re looking for a light and mildly interesting read about Christmas traditions, this might be what you’re looking for. Just please take it with a grain of salt and banish the guilt of feeling that you must do more.

Consider learning about traditions, carefully choose what you will do, and do less… with more purpose. :)

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