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Empty Promises: Aapti’s Story

April 5th, 2011 by Kristi Stephens

For the next two weeks, I will be reposting our Redeemed series focusing on the serious issue of human trafficking and the ministry of Women at Risk, International. Gillian Ferwerda of Women at Risk (WAR) wrote these posts for us to open our eyes to the rampant problem of trafficking around the world, and also give us specific ways that we can make a difference! I pray you will join us and be changed through it!

Aapti’s Story
Nepal

Aapti grew up in a small Nepali village. Life was hard, but they managed. She helped her mother make alu roti, the Nepalese bread and fetch water from the well.

She knew her family was poor, but then the drought struck. There were days when they had nothing to eat… She remembers the hollow of her stomach echoed the hollow in her mother’s eyes. Her baby brother was always crying, but then he became too weak to cry.

A woman came to their village, richly dressed in a yellow sari. She was the only colorful thing in their wind-blown village.

She told Aapti that she was beautiful, and Aapti blushed.  She said that Aapti could find a job in a city, taking care of a rich person’s children. Then she could send money back home. “And my baby brother would not die?” Yes, her baby brother would not die. Aapti could even buy a colorful sari like hers, the woman said.

At dinner that night, a thin gruel of potato, Aapti told mother and father what the woman had said. Father was intrigued.

The next day, he came home and said that he had talked to the rich woman. Aapti would go with her the next day to a big city. Mother cried. But Aapti was a little excited, but nervous as well. She had never left her village.

The rich lady took her to a big city and Aapti thought she had arrived. But then they got on what the lady called a train. And they went a long, long way, and then Aapti did not know the language. She did not know where she was.

When they finally got off, a big man met them. He gave the rich lady some money, and she started walking away. Aapti went to follow her but the man stopped her—she shouted out, confused. The lady turned around and said sharply, “Obey him.”

Aapti  found herself in a brothel, drugged, beaten, and forced to obey.  She was sold—another victim of human trafficking.

What is human trafficking?

Human trafficking is this century’s slavery, the buying and selling of people for labor or forced sexual exploitation. Vulnerable women and children find themselves chained to beds of horror, their spirits broken and their bodies sold. This evil victimizes people in every country, of every age, and of every gender.

800,000 people are sold across international borders each year; not including those trafficked within countries. 50% of these are minors; 70% of the women are sold into sexual slavery.[1]

In total, some estimate that 4 million women and girls are bought and sold worldwide every year.[2]

This evil is swelling; human trafficking is the fastest growing arm of organized criminal activity, second only to drug trafficking in extent and size. Evil eats up the victims, but also the traffickers, selling them to its minions of greed, hate, and self-worship.

What you can do!

How do we respond in the face of statistics like these? Do you long to do something and wrap arms of love around these women and children? Women At Risk, International (WAR, Int’l) was birthed out of this passion—we exist to educate and unite others to create circles of protection and hope around women and children at risk. Reading this blog series is a first step to become informed about trafficking and what you can do. Visit www.waritnernational.org for more information.

For You

The truth is, Aapti’s story is our own story. We have all sold ourselves to something—a good career, image, perfectionism, alcoholism, self-concern, fear. These become our masters. We will do whatever it takes to feel accepted, loved, safe…

What seemed to promise happiness, freedom, and worth turns on us.  We discover that the promises we believed were empty, hollow, deceptive.  We discover that we are in bondage, for we are slaves to whatever controls us.  (2 Peter 2:19)

Each one of us was born as a slave to sin, separated from God – the Creator and Sustainer of life, the giver of hope, the lover of our souls. There is no life apart from him.

But in Him, there is real hope—Jesus has paid the price with His own blood to buy us out of our slavery to sin! (Revelation 5:9)  If we acknowledge our desperate need for Christ’s blood to free us from our sin, believe that He is who He said He is and commit to following Him, we will be rescued from bondage to sin (Romans 10:9) and brought into eternal life (Romans 6:23).

“It is for freedom that Christ has set us free.”  Galatians 5:1

From Kristi: Want to know more about how to find freedom through Jesus Christ?  Please email me – I would love to talk with you.

To find the other posts in this series, or to find how you can be involved in spreading the word, click here.


[1] U.S. State Department. Trafficking In Persons Report, 2009.

[2] Zonta International.

11 Responses to “Empty Promises: Aapti’s Story”

  1. uberVU - social comments Says:

    Social comments and analytics for this post…

    This post was mentioned on Twitter by KristiStephens: #Redeemed story #1 is up! Come meet Aapti, a trafficking victim from Nepal. We’re more like her than you might think. http://is.gd/aSLyT

  2. Teri Lynne Underwood Says:

    “We have all sold ourselves to something.” This sentence haunts me already … thank you, Kristi, for bravely tackling this necessary topic.

  3. Brooke McGlothlin Says:

    It’s true. We all sell out. I love how this post brings truth. The truth of the horror of human trafficking as well as the truth that we are not so different from the women hurt by it. I’m praying…and acting Kristi. I plan to host a WAR jewelry party this spring. Thank you for bringing this to my attention. My heart physically hurts from the pain these women are experiencing.

  4. Kristi Stephens Says:

    That’s so awesome, Brooke! If we all did a little bit… think of the huge impact it would make!

  5. @bibledude Says:

    Wow… touching story about Aapti. There is a common theme in here that resonates with other stories that I know. Extreme poverty seems to put these young girls (and boys) in situations where they can be easily lured into situations like this. Victims fall into it because they are sincerely trying to fill a need…

    Crazy.

  6. Kristi Stephens Says:

    Absolutely!! I’ve been reading so much about trafficking victims – the common stereotype that they are weak and naive just isn’t true. Often they are strong, brave individuals who are simply doing everything they can to support their families.

  7. Tyra Says:

    This story, and the realization that there are so many others like it, is heartbreaking. Praying for God to use this to greatly help and also what I can do personally to make a difference. Thank you so much for sharing this.

  8. Amanda Eck-The Eck Life Says:

    wow! thank you for sharing. I have just recently become aware of human trafficking. We live in Houston and have been told that Houston is one of the largest hubs to HT. ugh! I can drive up on down a major road and count at least 15 different “spas”-it is so sad. We have some dear friends who actually go into these “spas” and pay for time with these girls. She brings them toiletries then shares Jesus with them. Apparently one of the girls has been rescued and is attending our church. I pray that the Lord continue to bless you as you continue to expose the evil dark secret that has been hidden for far too long!

  9. Kristi Stephens Says:

    Wow – Amanda, what a ministry your friend has!! It really is hard to comprehend how much HT happens within our local areas. Thank you for praying – may God move our hearts and show us how to act on behalf of the oppressed!

  10. Julie Says:

    This is an excellent story of how easily and innocently a life can “be sold.” Praying the words travel deep and far …

  11. Kristen@Moms Sharpening Moms Says:

    Wow…Aapti’s story is unbelievable. Thank you for bringing her story to us so that we can help stop this monstrosity.

    Thank you, Kristi, for following His call to bring this series to light!

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