Update on Masen
September 9th, 2008 by Kristi Stephens
I thought I should post this email from my sister – God is good and we have many things to praise Him for already through this situation!
Hello, dear friends and family!
Well, I have lots to update you on today, and I have to say, it is with a heart at peace that I write you today. Thank you, thank you for all your prayers, phone calls, etc.–they have definitely been appreciated! You have blessed us more than you know! For all our friends who are encouraging their kids to use sign with Masen or learn sign–you are awesome. Thank you for letting her feel welcome and making her parents feel like she’s not alone in this!
First of all, the surgery is set for Sept. 29th (Monday) in the afternoon. I’ve heard it will be a shorter, easier procedure than the first time, which is all great news! I’m also hoping that means it will be less painful for Masen!
We told Masen about the procedure Sunday after church, because, frankly, we knew her frustration level was really high after church! She had an interpreter for the first time in a class setting, and she was really frustrated. She couldn’t follow both the story being acted out on stage as well as the interpreter; she had to choose where her attention went. She was bored if she didn’t have the interpreter, because she had no idea what was going on. She took the news just fine; had a few questions–”what is it going to feel like?”, etc. She is definitely still processing it, because she keeps asking questions and making comments about it. She told me yesterday that “it doesn’t FEEL broken in my head…”. :)
We had our follow-up appointment with the audiologist today as well as the sales rep for Advanced Bionics; they wanted to do further testing to see if they could get more information on why and how the implant failed. On the way into the hospital, I told Masen that her implant might work for a little bit–turning on and off like before. Well, when we got into the testing room, they put her implant on and it WORKED for about 5 minutes! Her first reaction to me saying “hi! I missed you!” was a teary meltdown and an enormous hug that lasted a LONG time. So, we both cried and then were able to talk about her surgery and her new implant, which was incredibly helpful. The audiologist told us that we will get a full report of what failed, etc.
Also, Masen chose to have the BTE processor, which means she won’t wear her processor around her waist anymore, but behind her ear, like a hearing aid. She is VERY excited about this new implant, because (typical girl :) ) you can accessorize this one. :) It has little clips that you can put on the magnet–flowers, stars, rainbows, etc.–and she thinks it is QUITE fine. :)
Mom and Dad are excited about the new processor because they think it’s going to help her hear even better than before. The microphone is at ear level with this one instead of on the magnet at the back of her head, so it uses the ear’s natural funneling shape to funnel the sound into her microphone. Amazing, isn’t it, that God’s design is the best one?? :) When we got out to the car I asked her why she had cried when they put her CI on, and she said “because I was so happy!” Mom is truly happy today, too–what a gift to talk to my daughter again, even if only for 5 minutes! It really makes you think about what words you choose to say when you know your time is limited…I think I need to have that perspective with everyone in my life. I need to make my words count, because who knows when the opportunity to say them will come again!
Masen’s happiness has continued so far today–she is back to a little more of the bubbly Masen we all know and love. I think today was encouraging for her, too. :) She held her new processor in her hand, and she knows that she’ll be able to hear (Lord-willing) by her birthday at the end of October. I think it felt a little more tangible to us all today! The audiologist also told us that she will probably be able to turn it on, or activate it after 2 weeks post-surgery. Wonderful news all around today!
How thankful we are for the unchanging character of our awesome God. He is good even when our circumstances aren’t. I love that about Him–I can depend on Him. He will not fail me. He is there for me. He has promised to never leave me or forsake me. I can give Him all my fears and worries, because He is BIG enough to handle them. I hope you experience His grace today, too! Thank you for praying for us to feel His peace, because it is THERE.
Love you all!
Tiffany
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