Lessons from the waiting room
November 19th, 2010 by Kristi Stephens

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We’ve all been there. The waiting room.
After rushing and sweating and tripping over ourselves to get to an appointment on time, we find ourselves staring at the walls, counting the chairs, flipping aimlessly through magazines as we wait. Gazing at the door ahead of us wondering when it will next open, hoping our name will be called. Pondering what might be happening on the other side… what is occurring in the lives of others just out of sight that is causing us to wait. And wait. And wait.
My husband and I have felt for months, years, like we have been stuck in a waiting room. Knowing that God has called us to do and be certain things, taking fearful leaps of faith… and finding ourselves waiting.
From our very human perspective, we tend to think that life is going to happen once that door opens and we can move on to the next stage – but I think God often leaves us to live large chunks of life in the waiting room. It is in the waiting room that our hearts can be adjusted.
The Sermon on the Mount fascinates me. I have been reading through Matthew and once again find myself drawn to these chapters, pondering them, savoring them, longing to understand the heart of the Master. Matthew 7:28 ends this amazing section of Scripture with the observation that “the crowds were astonished at his teaching.” It is astonishing. Jesus’ view of life is so very different from our “natural” human view.
Jesus enlarges our understanding of God’s ways and shines a light on how far our ways are from His. We point to the fact that we have never murdered, He points out the anger simmering in our hearts and tells us that it is by meekness that we will inherit the earth.
We look around ourselves self-righteously as we mentally label “those” people as the immoral, the adulterers. He makes us squirm as He shows us that our very hearts are immoral, points out how prone we are to sin, advises us to painfully cut away and discard anything which might cause us to stumble even in ways unseen by those around us. To examine the plank in our eye before we take the scalpel to our brother’s speck.
We take delight in showing our “righteousness” to the world around us – trumpeting our giving as “setting an example,” praying long and showy prayers that others might notice our piety, making it public knowledge when we choose to fast or make some small sacrifice. Jesus tells us to have a vibrant life of walking with God in obedience and hiddenness – giving in secret, having a prayer life that is fervent and private before we pray to Him in public, sacrificing quietly and offering our lives as a gift to Him alone. He shocks us by saying that many who have prophesied and cast out demons and performed “mighty works” in His name will be cast from His presence, for He never knew them.
We tend to think that life is all about the big appointment – the active, obvious times when it is about us serving, us doing. Life is often about the waiting room. The times of quiet reflection, introspection, searching for the heart of the Father.
Because it’s not about us. It’s about Him.
Life in the waiting room is full of lessons – lessons that are often lost in the midst of hurry, angst, and worry. Is it any wonder that smack in the middle of this message we find this gentle reminder:
Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing?… For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble. (Matthew 6:25, 32-34)
“Lord, we need this… we’re waiting… why aren’t you opening this door?…”
So often, His answer is wait. Wait longer, my child. You’re still seeking your kingdom, your righteousness, your provision.
Seek mine instead.


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